When Is a Staff Retreat like Vacation Bible School?

The staff retreat. When is the best time to pull your employees away from the office? Where is a good place to hold the event? What topics should you address? How do you make it both fun and informative? The answers are right under your nose.  Take a close look at the planning and execution of Vacation Bible School and you’ll find that your Children’s Ministry staff are retreat masters. Mirror every element of a great VBS and you’ll pull off a successful employee retreat.

 

When There’s a Theme

When cardboard boulders line your church hallways or construction paper fish hang from the ceiling of your Fellowship Hall, it’s a sure sign that VBS is in the making. It’s also a clue to one of the most important building blocks of a winning event: the theme.

Choosing a theme does more for a retreat than determining decorations. It provides the framework for the retreat’s message. For instance, VBS curriculum “Cave Quest” grounds kids in “the rock-solid foundation of God’s love”. “Deep Sea Discovery” is designed for kids to “dive deep into God’s presence.”

 

When There Are Activities

You can’t expect children to sit still for hours listening to someone talk. The same is true for adults. Like VBS, retreats need to include some time for fun, even if that time is simply a break for snacks. Yes, you want to set a time limit to keep the agenda moving, but sometimes it’s during an unstructured break that people come up with ideas while talking to others.

Don’t completely rule out crayons and childish toys when planning activities for adults. We’re told that as children, all of us were creative, but that as we age, most of us decide we’ve lost the ability.  Although seemingly silly, sometimes coloring and doodling or time in a playground unleashes restrained creativity, which becomes evident in a great brainstorming session later in the day.

 

When we are Sensitive

Kids from all ages attend VBS and although the theme may be the same across the board, the lessons and activities are tailored to specific ages and skills. It’s important to be sensitive to the different needs of adults, too.

Taking a hike in a local forest sounds like a great idea … unless you happen to have bad knees. Handing out a typed agenda works for some, but for those who rely on a screen, paper is not only passé, it’s wasteful. Ending the retreat with a group dinner sounds like fun to some, but presents a dilemma with babysitters or school pickups to others. When planning a retreat, think about things like physical abilities and communication styles all employees before choosing activities and timeframes.

 

When Choosing a Location

Of course VBS primarily takes place within the walls of the church, but sometimes it’s possible to include an outing as part of the week’s activities. Sometimes a field trip is the one thing about VBS a child remembers into adulthood because it was different and special.

If possible, plan at least part of your staff retreat, if not all of it, to take place somewhere other than in a church meeting room. Scope out what might be available at a nearby hotel, restaurant or library. Think of unlikely places to hold a retreat – you may be surprised at the accommodations available at a zoo, a museum or a state park. As a non-profit, meeting space fees may be reduced or one of your members might have a connection that would allow you free access.

Speaking of which, take a look at members who manage or own a business. Many corporate offices include nice meeting spaces. Industry headquarters sometimes even house auditoriums and cafeterias. It might simply take a phone call to get permission to use a member’s facility.

 

You don’t necessarily want your employees to glue macaroni to a cigar box during a staff retreat (or do you?), but there is a lot to learn from those who plan and execute Vacation Bible Schools that will make for a meaningful and memorable staff retreat. Ask your Children’s Ministry Director to go out for coffee today!

 

Judy Bumgarner is a freelance writer in Nashville, Tennessee.

 

Event Promotion on a Budget

It’s no secret that churches have to budget, especially for events. When faced with “getting the word out,” sometimes the promotion portion of the event is overlooked until it’s . . . well, time to promote it. Here are a few budget-friendly, event-promotion tips to help you work lean and practice good stewardship.

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The Four Types of Committee People

So, you’ve been put in charge of a team of people for a big event or task. Congratulations?!? Don’t worry, you’ve got this!

After you have a crystal-clear understanding of the assignment, a key next step is understanding the people who make up your team. Once you know what motivates them and how they think, you can connect them with assignments that help them do their best to make this a great project. Degrees in psychology aren’t required—just some simple observations on human nature will give you plenty of answers.

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Top 10 Things to Know Before Planning Your Event

Events are fun, right? The initial plans are always filled with pie-in-the-sky concepts, Pinterest-worthy designs, visions of perfect weather and images of coordinating in a stress free environment. It’s the “honeymoon” stage of event planning, and one that doesn’t last very long. . . . because reality sets in.

Budgets and bosses take over, and your event is now another task on your already long list of things to do.

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Outrageous Outreach for Kids and Teens

 

More often than not, reaching out to your community’s children equals reaching out to their parents, and the key to reaching your non-church-going neighbors might mean you need to shift your thinking about how you approach outreach. We have a few outside-the-box ideas that will engage kids, families, and even businesses/organizations throughout your community!

Draw People in
Art Show. Team up with a community day care for this event. Kids make works of art and parents are invited to an art show held in your church. Mount the art on colorful cardstock to make the pieces look like they’ve been matted and hang them (gallery-style) with non-stick tape along a hallway, or in your community room. Attach a little card that includes the name of the piece as well as the name of the artist. Prepare trays with cups of punch and cookies and have volunteers walk around the “gallery” offering refreshments to your guests. Offer to give tours of your church and have a handout about your children’s ministry activities available to give to guests as they leave.

Piano Recital. Piano teachers need to hold their recitals somewhere, right? Ask around and you’re sure to find a music teacher who would love to invite his/her students and their families to your fellowship hall or sanctuary for a recital. Offer to print the recital program in exchange (and with permission) to add information about your children’s activities and service times on the back. Have a post-recital coffee reception so parents will stick around a few minutes and use that opportunity to invite families to visit your church again.

Scare up Interest . . . at Halloween
Treat Coupons. Make some simple coupons redeemable for a candy bar or some other treat. Include wording explaining how the coupon can be exchanged for the treat at your church at a certain date and time. Give copies to your members and ask them to drop the coupons into trick or treat bags—in addition to their treat, please—on Halloween night. Be sure you’re prepared with a coupon-exchange location that includes information about your children’s ministry, too.

Reverse Treats. This outreach idea actually involves your current roster of kids. Create a note that invites people to attend your church or Sunday school. Let your child sign his or her name to the note. Attach it to individual pieces of candy, or to personalized pens, magnets or other promotional items your church might have. As your child goes door to door receiving treats, he or she gives a treat back as well. You may have to help your princess or superhero explain the proceedings, but that gives you a chance to introduce yourself.

Reality Outreach. Admittedly, the To Hell and Back walk-through drama presented each October by Grace Chapel (Westerville, Ohio) is extremely outrageous. No matter what you think of this idea, Pastor Doug Meacham says the anti-drinking driving/texting event delivers a powerfully spiritual message. Grace Chapel has put on this event for years and it’s become an October staple in the community.

“The event takes guests on a journey through a teen party scene, followed by a very realistic car accident scene from distracted driving,” Meachum explains. “Then, the group will see a death notification scene by a police chaplain to the parents of the teen who died in the car crash, a police interrogation scene for the teen driver who took the lives, and a funeral scene.”

“At this point, the focus turns towards the spiritual,” he continues. “Guests are taken through an ‘outer darkness’ maze where the devil gives a speech about choices and the consequences of those choices.”

Again, you might need to think about outreach a little differently than you do now—so what do you think?

Judy Bumgarner is a freelance writer in Nashville, Tennessee. She also works at Brentwood United Methodist Church in the church’s Caring Ministry.